How We Can Help You With Your Dating and Social Life
May 15, 2018
Wes and Regina talk about whether coaching is right for you.
VIDEO: Welcoming Regina to the Team!
May 11, 2018
This video introduces Regina, a new addition to Introvert Unbound. She’s a Licensed Professional Counselor passionate about working with introverted guys like you to help you level up your dating and social life.
PODCAST #5: Exercising Your Social Muscles as an Introvert
March 5, 2018
In the fifth episode of the Introvert Unbound Podcast with Wes Colton, we chat with Richard from Introvert Going Out, a charming and inspiring blog about the experiences of an introvert trying to be more social.
We talk about the social and career benefits of chatting up strangers, the concept of building up one’s social muscles, and how to avoid using your introversion as a crutch.
Stream or download here.
VIDEO: 9 Reasons You’re Not Getting Dates
January 20, 2018
I made one of my most popular articles, “9 Reasons You’re Not Getting Dates,” into a YouTube video and will likely do this for other articles. As always, let me know what you think!
PODCAST #4: Bringing Out Your Inner Badass
December 22, 2017
In the fourth episode of the Introvert Unbound Podcast with Wes Colton, we chat with author C.G. Carroll about what it means to be the “bad boy” who the girls go crazy for.
In our discussion we dissect Patrick, the protagonist of his novel, Edges, a realistic portrayal of a guy who possesses both positive and negative traits that women find irresistible, and talk about how guys can bring out their inner badasses without becoming total pieces of shit.
Stream or download here.
An Introvert’s Secret to Extending Your Social Battery
December 12, 2017
– by Wes Colton, Introvert Unbound
I’ve always been an extreme introvert, preferring to spend much of my time completely alone or in very small groups. It’s not that I hate people, it’s simply that—as with all introverts—socializing drains my energy, so I tend to enjoy solitary activities the most.
Over the years, though, I started to accept the fact that my aversion to socializing might be keeping me from living the life I wanted.
After graduating from college, I found it difficult to make new friends, as that required putting myself into new situations and introducing myself to people. Since I worked from home, my professional life was mostly fine, but I knew I was limiting my prospects because I never wanted to network in person with colleagues who could’ve expanded my horizons. And, needless to say, my social isolation made it so my dating life was pretty dismal.
Finally, it got to the point where my misery was greater than my dislike of socializing and I decided to just launch myself out there into the world. And the discovery I made changed my life: I had been using my introversion as a crutch.
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Is Cold-Approaching Women Sexual Harassment?
December 4, 2017
– by Wes Colton, Introvert Unbound
For months, sexual harassment has dominated the news cycle. Kicked off by allegations of movie producer Harvey Weinstein propositioning young actresses in exchange for film roles, accusations have rippled across the entertainment and political landscape.
I’m not going to comment on what may or may not be going on in these many cases. Instead, I’d like to discuss whether today’s sexual/political climate means the end of cold-approaching women.
There’s no question that we’re living in a time when men’s behavior towards women is being scrutinized like never before. However, instead of this spelling the demise of cold-approaching women, I’d argue that cold-approach is more important than ever.
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