A selection of original articles written by Wes Colton and Regina Hopkins for Introvert Unbound.
How is your dating life today compared to a year ago? That’s your dating trajectory.
The best way to do away with the misery of rejection is to stop taking it so seriously.
If you’re looking to improve your own social life, here are four qualities cultivated by those who have done just that.
As a dating coach I can tell you the vast majority of men who have abandoned dating have done so too soon.
As a dating coach, few things bother me more than bad advice from other coaches.
Not sure if the image you’re projecting is going to entice potential dates? Here are 5 signs you could use some help from the pros.
While there’s no question online dating can enhance many people’s dating lives, I’m going to explain why, as a dating coach, I don’t often recommend it to my clients.
With the new year coming up, I wondered what it would be like to not only avoid dating throughout the whole of January, but not even try to date anyone.
Regina approaches a man at the gym to see what happens.
Even with their dark side, dating apps do have a place in the dating world in terms of functionality and usefulness.
Find out why breakups are typically worse for introverts than extroverts and what you can do about it.
There are several ways in which we introverts have a leg up on extroverts when it comes to dating.
There are three “buckets” we put potential dates into, usually without being overtly conscious of it.
If you’re not careful, “pickup” can start to warp your personality, where every part of your being is so focused on what might get a girl to like you, that you start having trouble functioning in other social spheres.
Basically, if you’re a guy who’s not where he wants to be dating-wise and you keep telling yourself that the problem will fix itself—you’re in dating denial.
Qualifying is nothing more than asking a woman questions about herself so you can figure out if she’s the type of woman you want to date.
If you’re not getting regular dates, I can almost guarantee that at least one—and likely more than one—of these reasons applies to you
There’s no question that we’re living in a time when men’s behavior towards women is being scrutinized like never before. However, instead of this spelling the demise of cold-approach, I’d argue that it’s more important than ever.
Whether it’s a from cold-approach or on an Internet date, if you want to get intimate with a woman, at some point you’re going to have to touch her. So what’s the when, where, and how when it comes to physicality?
It might not sound like much, but proximity is often the difference between a woman perceiving you as a potential sexual partner or just a friend/harmless rando.
For those who don’t know, ghosting is when someone stops texting you without any explanation why. We’ve all had it done to us. But why does it hurt so much?
Though it may sound counterintuitive, the more successful you get with women, the more rejections you’ll be experiencing.
A woman walks down the street, her hair dyed blonde, eyes smeared with purple eyeshadow and mascara, blush on her cheeks, bright red lipstick glistening, wearing a low-cut, form-fitting, oh-so-short dress. Does this mean she wants to be ogled by men?
Can you embrace the paradox of self love and self help?
A lot of what makes you an introvert is how you respond to stimulation.
Laziness is the main obstacle keeping you from the life you want.
Mini-disasters are some of the best things that can happen to you.
No question being born a man has its advantages. But you don’t need me to tell you it also comes with its share of obstacles.
The true path to mastery is completing every stage from beginner, to intermediate, to advanced.
Either implicitly or explicitly, the message is all too often that because you’re an introvert it’s okay to avoid socializing.
Sorry to break it to you, but being an introvert isn’t an excuse for sucking at conversation.
Over the years, I started to accept the fact that my aversion to socializing might be keeping me from living the life I wanted.
The reason small talk seems so superficial is because it is.
Let’s face it: as an introvert guy it can be tough to make friends. In many ways it’s easier to go out and find women to date than it is to meet a dude friend to hang out with.
Here are the Ten Commandments I follow that have allowed me to successfully work from home for almost a decade.