Why You Shouldn’t Take Rejection Seriously

– by Wes Colton, Introvert Unbound Ah, rejection. The mere mention of the r-word triggers many a dater’s anxiety and/or depression. Maybe if we came up with another term it wouldn’t hurt so much. How about…cold-shouldered? I’m kidding, of course. Changing the words we use won’t make it any less painful. No, the best way… Read More

4 Things My Successful Coaching Clients Have in Common

– by Wes Colton, Introvert Unbound As a coach who works primarily with men on their dating and social lives, I’ve noticed some major differences between clients who reach their goals and those who don’t. If you’re looking to improve your own social life, here are four qualities cultivated by those who have done just… Read More

When Should You Give Up On Dating?

– by Wes Colton, Introvert Unbound A surprising number of people—mostly young heterosexual men—are giving up on dating. While it’s true some of those calling it quits are doing so out of a desire to spend more time on their career or other worthwhile pursuits, for most of them it’s because they can’t find any… Read More

PODCAST #17: Lessons from an Introvert Master (with Gabriela Casineanu)

On episode #17 of the Introvert Unbound Podcast, Wes talks with Gabriela Casineanu, professional coach and award-winning author of “Quiet Lessons for the Introvert’s Soul” and “Introverts: Leverage Your Strengths for an Effective Job Search.” In this wide-ranging chat, Gabriela shares her wisdom on a variety of topics, including: differences between men and women introverts the… Read More

The Paradox of Self Love and Self Help

– by Wes Colton, Introvert Unbound Those of us interested in doing “inner work” have two conflicting schools of thought to choose from. The Self Help school teaches us to tackle our weaknesses while the Self Love school wants us to accept ourselves for who we are, flaws and all. Pretty much all of us… Read More