– by Regina Hopkins, Introvert Unbound
There are three “buckets” we put potential dates into, usually without being overtly conscious of it. BOTH men and women have the three same labeled “buckets” when it comes to dating and relationships. These are:
–The “friend bucket” — This person will only and always be a friend to you. (You will never see this person as somebody you would become sexually or romantically involved with). While they may be the greatest, nicest person you know, there is just not enough chemical attraction there for you to want to pursue anything more with this person.
–The “relationship bucket” — You would have or want to have a relationship with this person.
–The “sex bucket” — You will only ever sleep with them (and you do not want this to progress into a relationship).
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