PODCAST #25: What’s Your Dating Trajectory?
October 13, 2019
On episode #25 of the Introvert Unbound Podcast, Wes talks about how to objectively measure whether your dating life is improving or not.
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Tag: dating tips
RSVP FOR Thursday’s LIVESTREAM: Where (and How) to Find Dates as an Introvert
October 7, 2019
Are you an introverted type looking to date who’s sick of the flakiness of online dating but not a fan of loud bars or crazy parties?
Introvert Unbound dating coaches Wes Colton (MBTI® Certified) and Regina Hopkins (Licensed Professional Counselor) will present a free, 1-hour strategy session and online Q&A about:
-What it truly means to be an “introvert”
-The best places to meet fellow single introverts
-The easiest (and most appropriate) ways to strike up conversations and get dates
If you’re tired of being alone or meeting the wrong people, RSVP for “LIVESTREAM: Where (and How) to Find Dates as an Introvert” today!
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What’s Your Dating Trajectory?
October 4, 2019
– by Wes Colton, Introvert Unbound
Thanks to our limited social energy and fondness for alone time, the dating life of introverts is unlikely to be as active as that of extroverts. What that means is you’re doing yourself a disservice whenever you compare your situation to that of your chatty, hyper-social friends.
In fact, the only person whose social life you should measure your own against is yours over time!
Obviously, with anything as chaotic as dating, dips and spikes are inevitable. However, it can be helpful to take a moment to honestly answer this question: How is my dating life today compared to a year ago? That’s your dating trajectory.
PODCAST #24: Why You Shouldn’t Take Rejection Seriously
September 2, 2019
On episode #24 of the Introvert Unbound Podcast, Wes shares a real-life anecdote to help put rejection–in dating and life in general–in its proper perspective.
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Why You Shouldn’t Take Rejection Seriously
August 23, 2019
– by Wes Colton, Introvert Unbound
Ah, rejection. The mere mention of the r-word triggers many a dater’s anxiety and/or depression. Maybe if we came up with another term it wouldn’t hurt so much. How about…cold-shouldered?
I’m kidding, of course. Changing the words we use won’t make it any less painful. No, the best way to do away with the misery of rejection is to stop taking it so damned seriously.
And to help you put rejection in the proper perspective, here’s a 100% true anecdote.
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PODCAST #23: 4 Things My Successful Coaching Clients Have in Common
August 9, 2019
On episode #23 of the Introvert Unbound Podcast, Wes talks about the four qualities he’s noticed in nearly all of his clients who have improved their dating and social lives.
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When Should You Give Up On Dating?
July 5, 2019
– by Wes Colton, Introvert Unbound
A surprising number of people—mostly young heterosexual men—are giving up on dating. While it’s true some of those calling it quits are doing so out of a desire to spend more time on their career or other worthwhile pursuits, for most of them it’s because they can’t find any suitable partners.
One poll reported 28 percent of men under the age of thirty didn’t have sex at all in 2018, numbers that have tripled over the last decade and are continuing to spike. While many men are still putting themselves out there, for others the disappointment and frustration have turned into despair and resentment and they’ve thrown in the towel completely.
It’s my personal opinion that if a man chooses not to interact with women that’s his business and I respect his decision. However, as a dating coach I can tell you the vast majority of men who have abandoned dating have done so too soon.
