On episode #23 of the Introvert Unbound Podcast, Wes talks about the four qualities he’s noticed in nearly all of his clients who have improved their dating and social lives.
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– by Wes Colton, Introvert Unbound
A surprising number of people—mostly young heterosexual men—are giving up on dating. While it’s true some of those calling it quits are doing so out of a desire to spend more time on their career or other worthwhile pursuits, for most of them it’s because they can’t find any suitable partners.
One poll reported 28 percent of men under the age of thirty didn’t have sex at all in 2018, numbers that have tripled over the last decade and are continuing to spike. While many men are still putting themselves out there, for others the disappointment and frustration have turned into despair and resentment and they’ve thrown in the towel completely.
It’s my personal opinion that if a man chooses not to interact with women that’s his business and I respect his decision. However, as a dating coach I can tell you the vast majority of men who have abandoned dating have done so too soon.
– by Wes Colton, Introvert Unbound
As a dating coach, few things bother me more than bad advice from other coaches. Often times, it’s simply a lack of understanding on their part and they’re only putting out lousy information because they don’t know any better. But all too frequently dating coaches will tell you things they know are false just to sell their services.
In an effort to keep you from falling for the b.s., here’s my list of the top four lies dating coaches tell.
On episode #22 of the Introvert Unbound Podcast, Wes brings back his very first guest, Clint, to explain why he’s canceling all his online dating subscriptions.
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On episode #21 of the Introvert Unbound Podcast, Wes talks with data analyst Vik Sanchez about his research on online dating and his shocking conclusion that the goal of these apps isn’t to get you dates, but keep you swiping forever.
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– by Regina Hopkins, Introvert Unbound
The effective presentation of your personality is your ticket to winning at dating. Bottom line: You not only need a sharp and unique style that sets you apart from the crowd, but also the social skills and confidence to display your best self if you want to land more dates or find your partner.
Not sure if the image you’re projecting is going to entice potential dates? Here are 5 signs you could use some help from the pros:
1) You’re re-entering the dating world for the first time in several years
Times have changed since you were last on the hunt for a date. Professional coaches can make sure you’re putting your best possible self out there. They’ll get you up to date with current dating trends, review your social strategies, troubleshoot problem areas, and set you up with a game plan for success.
2) You’re not getting dates on your own
The experts can help you highlight your strengths, skills and unique personal attributes that set you apart. They’ll give you a plethora of ideas and strategies for meeting new people and feeling good about your dating life.
3) You’re not sure what information to include in your online dating profile
Coaches can work with you to figure out what you need to include (and what you don’t).
4) You’re questioning whether your online profile is being overlooked
The pros will ensure that you’re standing out amongst the vast pool of online dating profiles.
5) You’re struggling to “sell” yourself
If you’re not the type to brag, you may struggle to make a case for why you’re a fantastic date and potentially even more for the right person. A dating coach will have no problem boasting about your greatest attributes, successes and personal characteristics that make you unique and attractive to others.
If any of these situations sound familiar to you, it’s time to call in the professionals. Get your FREE 30-minute online or phone consultation with Introvert Unbound coaches Wes Colton, Certified MBTI Practitioner and Regina Hopkins, licensed professional counselor, TODAY!
Questions? Contact wes@introvertunbound.com or call 720-209-0338.
On episode #20 of the Introvert Unbound Podcast, Wes details some of the limitations of online dating and explains why meeting people the old-fashioned way might be a better option.
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