– by Wes Colton, Introvert Unbound
Obviously, online dating is one of the main ways people meet these days. Many introverts in particular consider these apps and sites to be godsends, making it possible to get dates without leaving the house.
While there’s no question online dating can enhance many people’s dating lives, I’m going to explain why, as a dating coach, I don’t often recommend it to my clients.
(Editor’s note: This article will be primarily discussing heterosexual relationships, as this is my expertise.)
Continue reading “The Case Against Online Dating”
On episode #16 of the Introvert Unbound Podcast, Wes shares his experience of “Solo Manuary,” where he swore off dating for the entire month of January.
Stream or download the episode here.
Our official video on breakups.
Not everything we record at Introvert Unbound makes it into a video. I think you’ll see why… (NSFW!)
Having trouble finding dates? Wish you had more friends? Feeling under-appreciated at work? Don’t worry, you’re not alone…even though it might feel like it sometimes.
Chances are, there’s nothing wrong with you, and you’re just experiencing the downside of being an introvert—which simply means that socializing drains your energy, while spending time alone recharges it.
Needless to say, there are countless benefits to being an introvert, including high levels of creativity, thoughtfulness, and independence (and many other positive qualities). However, it’s hard to deny that interacting well with people is the key to success in dating, friendships, and your career. And since socializing is exhausting to you, you probably don’t do it as often, so you might not be as adept at it as you could be.
The good news is they call them social skills for a reason, and that’s because—like painting a portrait or throwing a football—they’re something you can learn. And that’s what Introvert Unbound is all about.
Continue reading “Level Up Your Social Life with a Free 30-Minute Online Consultation with Introvert Unbound”
I made one of my most popular articles, “9 Reasons You’re Not Getting Dates,” into a YouTube video and will likely do this for other articles. As always, let me know what you think!