Tag: relationships

RSVP FOR Thursday’s LIVESTREAM: Where (and How) to Find Dates as an Introvert

October 7, 2019

IU Dates October 10
Are you an introverted type looking to date who’s sick of the flakiness of online dating but not a fan of loud bars or crazy parties?

Introvert Unbound dating coaches Wes Colton (MBTI® Certified) and Regina Hopkins (Licensed Professional Counselor) will present a free, 1-hour strategy session and online Q&A about:

-What it truly means to be an “introvert”
-The best places to meet fellow single introverts
-The easiest (and most appropriate) ways to strike up conversations and get dates

If you’re tired of being alone or meeting the wrong people, RSVP for “LIVESTREAM: Where (and How) to Find Dates as an Introvert” today!

***For your privacy, we set up the Facebook event so no one can see your RSVP or attendance***

Why You Shouldn’t Take Rejection Seriously

August 23, 2019

– by Wes Colton, Introvert Unbound

rejectedAh, rejection. The mere mention of the r-word triggers many a dater’s anxiety and/or depression. Maybe if we came up with another term it wouldn’t hurt so much. How about…cold-shouldered?

I’m kidding, of course. Changing the words we use won’t make it any less painful. No, the best way to do away with the misery of rejection is to stop taking it so damned seriously.

And to help you put rejection in the proper perspective, here’s a 100% true anecdote.

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4 Things My Successful Coaching Clients Have in Common

August 1, 2019

– by Wes Colton, Introvert Unbound

successful manAs a coach who works primarily with men on their dating and social lives, I’ve noticed some major differences between clients who reach their goals and those who don’t.

If you’re looking to improve your own social life, here are four qualities cultivated by those who have done just that.

1. Not Afraid to Seek Help

Many folks with unsatisfying social lives spend a lot of time venting about their situation, often on social media. While this can sometimes be a healthy outlet, always complaining without ever taking action does nothing to improve your lot.

Every month I offer a handful of free, 20-minute e-chat consults to struggling men to discuss their dating. I don’t expect most of these folks to become paying clients, I just want to share some strategies that might help them get out of their rut, and hope they’ll take things from there.

Yet, despite their often desperate situations, a surprisingly high percentage of these guys will flat out refuse. Of course, some of them are skeptical of coaches in general, a skepticism I share, as there are a lot of frauds out there. But nine times out of ten, I don’t think their fear of wasting 20 minutes is what’s keeping them from chatting. Instead, I believe the obstacle is an unwillingness to ask for help, with the root cause being an inflated ego.

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